Six-Time Cancer Survivor and Triathlete Wins First-Ever Growing Bolder Award
Posted October 29, 2008, 3:39 pm in TriathlonSix-Time Cancer Survivor and Triathlete Wins First-Ever Growing Bolder Award
Triathlete Tony Handler was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and given two years to live. That was 25 years ago. Since then, he's beaten cancer six times and has been named the winner of the first-ever Growing Bolder Award presented by GrowingBolder.com

Orlando, FL October 30, 2008 -- Six-time cancer survivor Tony Handler has been named the winner of the first-ever Growing Bolder Award presented by GrowingBolder.com. Handler finished first in the 65-69 age group in the Olympic Division of the Masters Triathlon Championships, held in Orlando, Florida. A video of Handler competing and receiving the award can be viewed here.
"This award is a celebration of attitude, and is our way of honoring men and women who overcome obstacles and inspire others," says Growing Bolder President Marc Middleton. "Tony is an incredible guy who proves that age and even disease are no match for a positive attitude. Instead of letting life pass him by, he's committed to celebrating every moment. That's the Growing Bolder spirit."

And celebrating is right! Handler is looking ahead to his 70th birthday, which is remarkable when you consider that when he was 45 years old, doctors called him in with news he never expected to hear.
"They told me, 'It's good news and bad news,'" Handler tells Growing Bolder. "'The bad news is, it's malignant cancer. The good news is, we've seen people with this cancer live for two years.' I thought -- that's the good news?"

In fact, it was only the beginning of a series of battles Handler would face, starting with pancreatic cancer. Over the next two decades, he'd suffer from a malfunctioning heart valve, other genetic coronary problems and six types of cancer, requiring 17 surgeries. Even today, he receives monthly chemotherapy injections to treat the tumors that still live in his tumor, and every six months, doctors check him to make sure the cancer hasn't spread. He says he'll likely be on chemotherapy for the rest of his life.

How does he handle the daily reminders of his broken body? By fighting back. Now 69 years old, Handler has competed in 220 triathlons, including two Ironman events, and for his 70th birthday in 2009, he has plans for a special commemoration. "The half-Ironman is a total of 70.3 miles, so I thought maybe I should try to do it in honor of my 70th birthday," says Handler. It's particularly appropriate, because in many ways, the Ironman saved Tony's life.
"I was in the hospital after my first surgery, and I saw the Ironman on TV and said to myself 'I'm going to do that,'" Handler tells Growing Bolder. "And I did - twice! The doctors are amazed, and tell me exercise has saved my life. Even if it's psychological, it helps me; it helps that my family and friends don't see somebody lying in bed moaning."
Twenty-five years after doctors gave him a life expectancy of two years, they now say Tony is a contradiction like they've never seen before. When it comes to the diseases that have ravaged his body, he's in much worse condition than most people his age. But physically, thanks to his triathlon training, he's in better shape than 99.9% of his peers.
"It's all about attitude -- training has always helped me get up and out of bed faster after surgeries or treatments for cancer," Handler says. "I don't feel like I'm almost 70, I feel 50. And as long as my body holds up, I'll do triathlon."
Married for 49 years to his childhood sweetheart Narda (who has only missed three of the 220 triathlons), Handler is proud that winning the Growing Bolder Award will help spread his message. "Cancer doesn't have to be a death sentence," says Handler. "I'm an example of that. And if my story helps others say 'I can do that,' then it's all worthwhile."
Want to learn more about Tony?
Click here for his GB profile page, and here to listen to his interview on The Growing Bolder Radio Show! You can also see Tony and Narda, along with the other athletes, in a special photo gallery here.
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Bill Floyd
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Posted 6:17 pm November 13th, 2008Tony -
I've raced in the same races you have, and I have seen you running the opposite way in the Masters Championship from the other side of the course, because of the course layout. Don't ever let anyone tell you that you're slowing down, because your form is as good as a young person's, and your attitude is the best I have ever met. I am glad I read this entire story about you, and life.
Friends,
Bill Floyd, USA Triathlon Certified Coach, Level II, USA Cycling Certified Coach, TEAM in Training National Certified Coach
Renee Fromkin
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Posted 8:25 am November 9th, 2008Tony,
What a wonderful and inspiring story....you certainly are an example of focusing on the positive side and not dwelling on the negative! I remember you and Narda from Weequahic High School and was so happy to hear of your long standing marriage and devotion to one another.
Renee (Lehrhoff) Fromkin
Mike Mandell
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Posted 9:54 pm October 31st, 2008Tony,
I have admired you for my entire adult life, I did not need to see this video or read this story, I am fortunate enough to" KNOW YOU". The drive and attitude that you have is unbelievable. You are certainly a remarkable person. I also know the fears you and Narda have lived with for so many years. The fact that you would NEVER allow your sickness to bring you down was an inspiration for Narda and the boys. It also never allowed any of us to have less than a positive attitude in regard to your health issues.
I know if you can make even one person change their outlook on life and overcome an illness, that would be the greatest accomplishment of all for you. I am sure anyone that has ever met you will agree that you have done that for many people, for that we all say; Thank You!
As you know, I think the world of you and love you very much. Stay well!
Your Brother-in-law
Mike Mandell
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Posted 11:03 pm October 30th, 2008Glad,
Thank you for the kind words in your comments. I am sorry to hear that you and your husband have both had to battle cancer, but am glad to see that you are winning that tough fight. You are right about attitude. You have to truly believe in your mind that you will continue to win the battle. As far as the physical and emotional part, I am a big believer that exercise has kept me alive. When I was first diagnosed 23 years ago, I made up my mind that I would fight it by getting my body in the best condition it could be, so I started training for Triathlons and eventually competing in them. Every time I cross the finish line, I emotionally feel that I have won another small battle against "Mr C" (all 220 times). Also the little voice in my head says "if you can do this crazy stuff, then you cant be sick". So I urge you to try and do any type of physical exercise, even if it is only slowly walking one block a day, and use that as your "cant be sick" proof. I think it will help you physically and emotionally. Please e-mail me at NARDAH99@VERIZON.NET and let me know how you are doing with your "battle plan" . YOU CAN DO THIS!!!!!!!
Tony
Glad
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Posted 8:04 pm October 30th, 2008Thank You for this story. It is a great help and inspiration. My husband Jay has lung cancer but the surgery, chemotherapy and radiation has changed his life. He can't do what he once did but really tries hard. I have survived breast cancer and will have my last reconstruction surgery in mid December. It has been very hard for us just to see the daylight, and each day gets harder and harder. It may be about attitude, but how do you do it physicallyand emotionally? You are truly a miracle person! Feel free to write back, we could use all the support we can get.
Glad