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A while back, I was conversing with a person who insisted there is no Heaven or Hell. When you die, you're gone. Journey over. It made me think a little and I decided to write a story about one of my experiences.
When I was living two doors down from the Fleming Castle on Bonnell Street, in Flemington, NJ, back in the late 70s, I had several experiences that you could call strange. One night, while lying in bed, I was trying to doze off when suddenly I heard the front door opening. At that time, I lived alone and my bedroom was the first one up the stairs. I heard footsteps, not heavy, walk across the room and start up the stairs. I was sure I had locked the door. I waited until the steps came almost to the top. There was no way I was going to let an intruder near me. I jumped out of bed and at the same time I turned on the light switch, I kicked into the air at my target. There was no one there. OK. The possibility of it being a dream was true, but I've never dreamed like that. I wasn't on drugs. I hadn't been drinking. While quite alert, I still heard the footsteps coming up. I know I heard the door open. It was frightening. What was it? I don't know. When I first moved in, I heard voices coming from the kitchen a couple of times. It stopped whenever I entered the room. No one was outside talking. Those, I just ignored and thought nothing of it, until...
When I started seeing Maryen, but before she moved in, we were going out for the night to hear a friend, Ken Yard perform in a band in Easton, PA. Ken and his girlfriend, Nancy, were living with me at that time. They had left hours earlier. We stopped at Maryen's and then mine to get changed. While I was in the bedroom looking through my dresser, Maryen went down the hall to the bathroom. She left the door open. The downstairs door opened and up the stairs walked a female. I assumed Nancy had come back for something because she walked right into their bedroom. They should have been hours away. When Maryen came to my room, she said that Nancy was home. I said, yes, I know, I heard her. When I had glanced out of the corner of my eye, I saw a shadow walk by. Maryen saw the same thing.
I yelled, "Hi, Nancy!" There was no answer. We walked into their room. No one was there. I looked under the bed and in the closet. Nothing. I would have shrugged it off again, but Maryen heard and saw the same thing as I did. I never brought up the notion of spirits in the house to her before. I mean, we hadn't been together that long. I didn't want her to think I was crazy. Was that strange? Or were we? We never experienced anything again.
About a year or so later, I ran into an author and locally renowned historion on Flemington and Hunterdon County. When I told her of my incidents, I piqued her interest. She researched the address. Later, she told me a seven year old girl had drowned in a well out back hundreds of years ago. The well was long gone. At one time, the house was part of the Fleming Castle estate, most likely a barn, erected after the castle was built in 1756.
I had always been skeptical about ghosts until those experiences. I can't say for sure that I believe in them, but, I won't say that I don't, either. I think what I'm trying to say is that if there is even a remote possibility of the existence of apparitions, then there is also that chance of an afterlife.
Ina
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Posted 9:39am July 29th, 2009Fata morgana's are seen by more people too. But who knows.
Did you do some history check up? Who was the girl? Why would she go about as a ghost? More people must have died in that house?
Dave Knechel
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Posted 9:31am July 29th, 2009I don't know if anyone else living there before or after me had any experiences or not, but there was a well once and a little 7 year old girl did die in that well. I wouldn't have given any of those experiences a thought except for the fact that Maryen mentioned it, too.
Ina
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Posted 9:16am July 29th, 2009wow gmta
Dave Knechel
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Posted 9:14am July 29th, 2009Sorry I am so late getting back to you, Debbie. I did talk to the new owner about a year after I moved out. No one in his family had heard or experienced anything up to that point. That was almost 30 years ago, so I don't know anything about today. I can look online, but every time I look for ghosts in Flemington, it leads me back to this post on my blog.
Ina
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Posted 9:14am July 29th, 2009Deb, that sounds like a good idea to me
Simply Deb
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Posted 8:25pm July 21st, 2009Hi Dave...
It would be interesting if you could talk with people who have lived at that address after you moved out. Maybe they have had similar experiences? What is the exact address on Bonnell Street? Maybe something can be found about other's experiences by doing a web search?
Ina
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Posted 1:58pm July 16th, 2009That is one way of explaining it
Dave Knechel
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Posted 12:22pm July 16th, 2009Interesting. There are a lot of mystifying events we experience at least once in our life and in most cases, there's no way to explain it.
Ina
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Posted 11:07am July 16th, 2009My mother and I once saw an old girlfriend of her (Fien) in Groningen on the Grote Markt, this woman she hadn't seen in thirthy years and she actually said hi, how nice to see you again. You haven't changed much. She seemed to remember my mother too. Later we heard she had passed away years earlier than that date. Our guess is it was someone who didn't want to embarress us and went along with it. But who knows...
Dave Knechel
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Posted 10:24am July 16th, 2009I agree to make the most of it here. As for an afterlife, I don't have a clue. All I could relate in this story was what two people saw at the exact same time whether it was real or imaginary, but the fact remains, we both felt a human presence. I have no explanation for it.
Ina
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Posted 2:36am July 15th, 2009Now I really hope I don't upset you with my theories, that are based on only what I think and have no scientific proof or anything. I am probably wrong, ok?
Why did we, humans, start with religions? To grasp the world around us, to make a society work, to control others and to have peace with mysery I think. But that is what I think.
We die because we are mortal and we live because we are lucky we survived the former stages of our existence. Like all other living creatures on this planet. Most lives on earth get lost in an early stage.
Who knows, and reïncarnation is true. David, we can only guess. I wouldn't mind an after life. If they have cable.
This gift of life we got from our parents ? and that we are living now is wonderfull enough as it is, but if there is more! Wow! If I go other places before you and I can send a message I will. No matter what postage. Till then, let's make the most of it here.
Dave Knechel
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Posted 4:56pm July 14th, 2009I can't say for certain what lies ahead, but we are a curious lot. Gods and ghosts have been around since the dawn of humanity, at least perceptions of those, so with each passing generation , we propagate and create. Do we know for sure? No, but I see no harm if people want to believe in God. We live for hope. What do we die for?
Ina
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Posted 3:58pm July 14th, 2009That was an interesting experience I am sure. Did you ever try to capture something more of the ghost?
Who knows what lies ahead. The thing is, why do we want to know? If there is an afterlife, we will find out in due time. If there isn't, we won't know, will we. So hoping and thinking and believing that there is a life after this, it is not of much use and it doesn't make this life better.
If you accept the fact that this life here is what we get, and make the most of it for others, for yourself, you live a lot easyer I think. If heaven is waiting for us above, it is a bonus. And hell is just invented to make us afraid, so forget hell. This is just what I think, of course. I don't claim this to be the only truth!
Ghosts, I don't know. I have had funny experiences too but if this is a proof of an afterlife? Or was it something like a fata morgana? I know a professor in parapsychology who claims nothing has ever been proven of such a thing. Seeing and hearing things doesn't mean they are there...
But if there is a heaven, I am sure you will have a seat there. And perhaps you will get a laptop, if you ask Petrus or the angel in charge of media. I bet internet works a lot better there too!