I have
mentioned in the past that I walk the beach few times a week sharing it with
the seagulls and a few beach goers. When
I do, I have my IPod on listening to music I enjoy. Yesterday was Bruce Springsteen (aka The
Boss) day. Although I have listened to
him in the past, yesterday I heard two consecutive songs that got me thinking.
The first
was Glory Days. I think it is hard to go
through a long life without experiencing days when everything seemed to be
going our way. Success and personal
satisfaction seem to be two main characteristics of those times. String several of those days or weeks or
months together and you have the makings of Glory Days.
The problem
is that most of us never realized at the time that they would come to be
remembered as our glory days, perhaps because when we are living them, we think
we finally got things right and nothing will change. The high school football hero, the person we
love becoming our spouse, the rapid promotions - experiencing those and so many
more are the basis of those special and wonderful times in our lives.
But the
reason we look back and fondly remember those times and call them Glory Days is
because those periods in our lives didn't last.
That really hit home when The Boss started singing the next song - Let's
Be Friends. In that song, he sings the
chorus:
Don't
know when this chance might come again
Good
times got a way of comin' to an end
Don't
know when this chance might come again
Good
times got a way of slippin' a-way
And so
it is with our Glory Days; they do come to an end, they do slip away.
So to
really enjoy them and value them for what they are worth, they need to age like
a fine wine. They need to be bottled in
our minds, allowed to ferment and then when the time is right, to be uncorked,
and fully enjoyed. The tasting is in the
remembering, swirling those times long past over the palate of our
consciousness, because in doing so it brings back warm memories and a
smile. That smile comes from knowing
that someplace, some time in our past we had our Glory Days. |